Dreams have been the subjects of songs and psychoanalysis, puberty and poetry. There are sweet dreams and there are nightmares … and then there are the dreams that comfort the dying. Although the dreams of hospice patients have not been subjected to a great deal of research, one recent study demonstrates that they can be meaningful and comforting for the person who is dying.
End-of-life experiences (ELEs) occur frequently in people who are near death and can take different forms.1 End-of-life dreams and visions (ELDVs) are one type of ELE.2 These often manifest as visions that occur during a wakeful state, or dreams that the patient remembers after sleeping.
DREAMS AND VISIONS OF THE DYING
Christopher W. Kerr, MD, PhD, and colleagues at the Center for Hospice and Palliative Care in Cheektowaga, New York, in partnership with James P. Donnelly, PhD, of Canisius College, Buffalo, New York, undertook a study to document ELE phenomena in patients at the facility. As part of the study design, they examined the content and subjective significance of ELDVs, and related their prevalence, content, and significance over time until the patient’s death.1
The study included 59 patients ranging in age from 34 to 99 years who were in their last weeks of life. The patients were interviewed daily about their dreams and visions while they were in the hospice inpatient unit. They were asked to report on the content, frequency, and comfort level of their ELDVs. If it was possible to continue the interviews after a patient was discharged, the interview was conducted at the patient’s home or at the facility to which the patient was transferred. The researchers met with the patients each day until they died, were unable to communicate, found communication too stressful, or until the patient became delirious.1
Of the 59 patients in the study, 52 (88.1%) reported having at least 1 dream or vision. Almost half of the dreams or visions (45.3%) occurred while the patient was sleeping, 15.7% occurred while the patient was awake, and 39.1% occurred during both sleep and wakefulness. The patients reported that nearly all ELDV events (99%) seemed or felt real. Most patients reported a single ELDV each day (81.4%); some reports were of 2 (13.2%), 3 (4.1%), or 4 events (1.4%) on other days.1
RATING THE DREAMS
The patients rated the degree of comfort or distress they associated with their ELDVs on a scale of 1 to 5, with 1 meaning extremely distressing and 5 meaning extremely comforting. The mean comfort rating for all dreams and visions was 3.59, with patients rating 60.3% of ELDVs as comforting or extremely comforting, 18.8% rated as distressing or extremely distressing, and 20.7% rated their dreams as neither comforting nor distressing.1
The patients felt that their dreams and visions were realistic, whether they occurred during sleep or while awake. They related dreams and visions of past meaningful experiences and reunions with loved ones who had already died, and who reassured and guided them. Others reported feeling as if they were preparing to go somewhere.1 The researchers noted that often patients’ dreams before dying were so intense that the dream continued from sleep to wakefulness, seeming to be reality. However, those patients who had ELDVs died peacefully and calmly.1
The most common dreams and visions included friends and relatives, either living or deceased. The patients found that dreams and visions that featured the deceased (friends, relatives, and animals/pets) were significantly more comforting than those of the living, of the living and deceased combined, or of other people and experiences. As participants approached death, comforting dreams and visions of the deceased became more prevalent.1